Friday, July 10, 2020

Leadership Acumen – Build it up with these C’s





In the words of author John C. Maxwell, “A leader is somebody who knows the way, Goes the way and shows the way”. Nobody is a born Leader. They all have learned the skill to play leadership roles with time.

A leader may grow out into a Good leader or a Bad leader. Leaders have different approaches to handling the teams of the organizations they are leading. The attitude and approach of a leader not only determines the success of the team but also impacts the Organization in many ways. Whether an organization is climbing the ladder of success or going down the performance graph, look at the leadership for more insight on the reason. A good leader may help the team members grow their potential, while a bad leader may cause the team to suffer from low self-esteem, stress, and inadequacy.

I have worked as an intern and full-time employee for several places and have seen many types of leaders. The Emotional intelligence Quotient of Good leaders was always good and they were mostly people with high levels of ethical standards, large-hearted, kind, compassionate, hardworking, confident, and secure individuals.  while the bad leaders were mostly narcissistic, insecure, incompetent, incapable people who wanted to control things to a suffocating extent. British Author, Marcus Buckingham says it in one sentence, “People don’t leave bad companies, they leave bad managers”. So if a manager is good to work with, Most people will stay loyal to the organization.

Communication is a key quality a leader showcases through his art of managing people. The way a leader communicates to his/her team sets the tone for the day ahead. The 10 C’s of a leader are Communication, Clarity, Character, Confidence, Competence, Candidness, Courage, Commitment, Competitiveness and Connection. It is up to the leader now to take these C’s in a good direction or in a bad direction. Each C has a very relevant significance in the right functioning and growth of a team.

Some Organizations have a very stringent and suffocating work culture which eventually increases their fallouts with the team now and then and often also, decrease their Employee retention rates. While some organizations put enormous efforts in knowing and helping their employee grow which results in employee loyalty and higher retention rates eventually resulting in greater stability.

Higher retention rates not only impart stability to an organization but also instills a positive work culture which reflects in the growth mindset of each individual employee. Whereas, on the other hand, Lower employee retention rates make an organization highly unstable. Every few days new teams keep coming and going without delving themselves to the ethics of the institution. This in turn makes the organization face numerous obstacles within and it trickles down to their public interface also in the long run.

So how does a leader get in the wrong shoe or right shoe? What do the leaders need to keep in mind while leading an organization? Below is a summary of various things that ought to be on a Leader’s mind while in the LEAD.

What makes a good leader?
  •     A good leader must be an excellent Communicator, by which not only he/she should have a command over the language but should also have a high emotional intelligence coupled along with enhanced persuasive skills.
·       A Good leader should be Confident in his abilities and strive for self-improvement every day and stay updated with the current trends.

·       A good leader will always keep up the optimism in all situations. She/he will motivate the team instead of scaring them to nervousness.

·       A good leader will accept responsibility instead of putting the blame on other team members whenever it is required.

·       He/she will create Clear expectations from the work instead of a confusing blueprint. She/he will ask goals to be delivered in a clear systematic thought process. (This will need an understanding of the task thoroughly themselves first).

·       A Good leader shall also try to understand the Unique capability of each team member and allot tasks likewise in order to gain better results and realizing fuller potential. Work division should be based on that. Don’t ask a fish to climb a tree. Value your team.

·       A good leader needs to be Candid and approachable to work with.

·        A good leader will be a Competent individual who has been through the struggles on the way up the ladder and has proven his meddle along the journey. One cannot be a Leader by instinct alone. It ought to be backed up by real-time experience of the domain as well.

·       A good leader will always respect time and energy of the team members.

·       An organization may be large or small but is eventually connected with the mental health of its team, lesser work stress in the team will be essential for running a happy organization. A good leader will ensure that the team is in a good mental health frame by listening to them more often and reaching out to help as and when possible.

·       A good leader will be Competitive in his energy, he/she would want to bring the best benchmarks to his team and will try to evolve the team to higher levels of output.

·       A good leader will also refrain from making assumptions about others without knowing the true situation. He/she will always refrain from acting on impulse over judgment or preconceived notion and rather try to be patient and figure out what went wrong or right in any situation before assuming anything.

·       A good leader will have the Courage to take the team forward with risks and at times confrontations as well for the sake of his team with the external world.

·       A good leader will never allow feelings of resentment and negative behavior to grow amongst his team members. If he/she observes any restlessness or negativity in the team, it is part of their job to bring their team to a good consensus and a positive work environment.

·       At the same time, a Leader should never tolerate bad manners of any team members and must always point out politely as and when required to the team member regarding the bad manners.

·       A good leader will always be respected more for his Character and moral standards. Leadership coach Brian Tracy also encourages people to keep their word as a leader. Integrity is the most valued trait of a leader.

·       A great leader will always have a great Connection with his/her team and will be in good bonhomie vibe with his team. A great leader knows it is more with sweetness in tone than a stern attitude that a human being can be made to realize his/her full potential.

·       A good leader will be Committed to his team and will always be dedicated to not only see the best in them but also do the best for them.

·       A leader should be Visionary and must have growth-related goals mapped in his mind to take the team ahead along with the organization.



These were just some of the mainstream points that define what a leader should or should not do. Every person who has an inclination towards leadership roles in his or her organization can learn to be a leader by following best practices observed across organizations over time. However, with experience and dedication, many things will be learned only on the journey of leadership.

Bestselling author Shiv Khera advocates the 3C’s for decision-making powers of a leader, which are the Decision of Command, Decision of Consultation, and the decision of Consensus. He also adds that the best leaders have always created a consensus in the absence of one.

As John Quincy Adams, American Diplomat states, “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, then you are a leader”. 

A dream to become a leader is desirable but to be good, loved, respected and Leader of significant impact, there is a lot to learn on the way to the top.




Tuesday, June 30, 2020

Revise your Happiness Quotient!

Revise your Happiness Quotient!

Not one individual, but nearly all of us aspire for a common commodity – Happiness! All of us think about, discuss, and look forward to how to make ourselves happy for a good chunk of our thinking hat time. Being happy is a universal pursuit and no grey cell out there is exempt from this desire. Yet, why it becomes so complex to be happy and why being just happy is such a toiling effort.

I picked up my observation hat and read literature conversed with expert people and got a bunch of recommendations on how to be happy. Some people gave me a very clichéd, “Happiness is a state of mind” and “The pursuit of happiness begins within.”, and several others like, “only an ignorant mind can be happy”,                to“ happiness comes from letting go of things that annoy you” & “happiness comes from sharing” etc. Another one was to learn to focus on the present and prevent focussing on the past or future.

World renowned motivational Gurus like Robin Sharma, Rhonda Byrne et al also state an optimistic set of mind training procedures to induce happiness in our lives. Even when people today read all self-help literature compared to the past times due to easy accessibility and affordability, most people talk about and are aware of toolkits to be happy. It seems, there is still some void to the outcome magnitude.

Is it to blame on our lifestyles or changing equations of relationships today or is it that we have failed to condition our brains to a certain tougher process in the long run and fall prey to adverse circumstances? Whatever the reasons we may console ourselves with, but the fact lies that we are in the era of ultra-awareness and easier lifestyles, we are continuously falling on the graphs of our happiness quotient.

                                                             

True indeed, happiness lies inwards and this troubleshooting requires an introspective journey to realize what makes an individual happy. But, in the face of self-realization, the biggest error we humans do is to take this vow of change with an unpredictable expiry date!

Anupam Kher in his Book (The best thing about you is you) mentions about how the digital era swiped out industry giants like Remington, Smith- Corona or Olivetti which were all manufacturers of the typewriter.

Yes, we all tend to start our post awareness drive with a kickstart vow and allow it to diminish as time passes by. What we fail to realize is, that this is as continuous a process as hunger for food. 

We need to fill our brain every new day and condition it with everything we can do to make ourselves happier. 😊

 
 
Take a vow this time which doesn’t get shattered by an adverse incident and again protects it from reaching expiry date. Live your days in spellbound enthusiasm towards happiness. Keep revising your Happiness Quotient, Good Luck! 😊